Conversation with no Symbolic Language
I found this extremely hard! It was really hard to take part in a conversation where you could not speak, only using hand gestures, noises, etc. I did this assignment with my mom and she pretty much had to do all the talking, asking all the questions. I would shake my head or nod my head or shrug my shoulders but it was hard to ask her anything. It was more of a one way conversation where she had to do all the work. After my mom realized I wasn’t asking the questions, and I was only answering the ones she asked me, she asked me only “yes/no” questions so I could answer them with a gesture. It made it much easier on me when she started asking me questions that I could answer by the shaking or nodding of my head.
The culture that uses the symbolic language would have an advantage over the culture that does not. I’m sure the speaking culture would think it would be odd to speak to a culture that does not use the symbolic culture because, like I said earlier about my mom, it was difficult for her to carry on a conversation with me because there was only so much I could say to her and only so much I could respond to her questions. Even though American Sign Language is a symbolic language, it is not a spoken language and it very difficult to communicate without using words in our society today. When people who realize that individuals cannot use the spoken language, they will almost always change their way of communicating with them by using hand motions and body gestures. That is the same with a different language. When I am at work and someone does not speak English, I have to change the way I speak to them, by pointing or waving, for example.
Conversation with only a Symbolic Language
I could not last the entire 15 minutes while only using the spoken language without any physical embellishments. I think the fact that I could not change the tone in my voice when I’d say I was excited or happy about something was the hardest. I even had a very hard time not raising my eyebrows or smiling while I talked. My partner in this conversation changed the way she talked as well, after a while talking in the same monotone voice that I was. She eventually just started talking in the same way that I was on her own and probably without knowing she was doing it.
This experiment really showed me how important it is to be able to express emotion in your voice, use hand, body, and facial expressions and body movements. You really don’t realize how much you use non-spoken language until you cannot use them anymore and it is a lot harder than you think! People who are blind or have difficulty seeing have a hard time determining others’ non-spoken language and that affect the way they communicate with each other. Body language is one of the most important aspects to communication and language. For example, when you cannot see or hear the person communicating to you, you can take what they say the wrong way. This happens a lot through text message or email where you don’t know exactly how they say things and can read it in the wrong way. Language is the most effective if you are able to use spoken language and non-spoken language.
I found this hard to do as well with my experiment I used 2 friends one knew what was happening and one didn't which made it frustrating and confusing to him but after awhile he caught on. I found out that gestures and language symbolism tie into each other more than I thought during this assignment which took me off guard
ReplyDeleteIsn't it interesting how much your partner must adjust their own way of communicating for both parts of this experiment? Some people who did this in groups had a different result in that the group usually ended up just excluding the non-speaking or non-signing person from the conversation, just out of discomfort. Can't do that in a one-on-one.
ReplyDeleteGreat post!